I have to say this.  I am so grateful for my husband.  He stands by me….always.  And lately we have had a hard time not being able to see Sydney.  He loves her just like I do.  Our grandchildren are very important to us.  He is with me in this dinner coming up even though he has to go to work when we are having it.  He is forgiving and really exhibits love to everyone in our family…and there are a few people who can be difficult you might say.  No need to name them…….we know who they are and so do they.